Which Is Better Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage In Hindi

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Which Is Better Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage In Hindi

Marriage sabhi ke jeevan ka ek importent decisions hota  jo jeevan bhar ka hota hai jise apko puri zindagi nibhani padti hai. Ek galt decisions apke  life me kai sare problem lekar aa sakta hai aaj ke youngstar bahut confuse hote hai ki love marriage kare ya arranged marriage to aaj hum janne ki koshis karenge which is better love marriage or arranged marriage hume kon si marriage karni chahiye aur kyu aaiye jante hai!

 

 

Love Marriage Aur Arranged Marriage : Aaj ke time me bahut se log arranged marriage ko sahi mante hai aur kuch log love marriage ko sahi mante hai. Dono apni jagah sahi hai love marriage aur arranged ke apne fayde aur nuksan hai. Ye apme depend karta hai ki aap use nibha pate hai ya nahi kisi bhi marriage ke succesful hone ke secret  hai ek dusre ke prati vishwas, pyaar aur ek dusre ko aur unki family ko respect dena   in bato ko hamesha apne zindagi me apnaye!

 

Marriage koi bhi ho kabhi na kabhi koi na koi problem  to ayegi  hi aap ise sahi tarah se samhal le bat kabhi bhi aage badne na de. Apne partner ki tulna kabhi bhi kisi se na kare ye dono ko hi bahut hurt karta hai apke partner jase hai apke hai aur ache hai ye bat hamesha yaad rakhe!

 

 

Love marriage ke फायदे एवं  नुकसान :


1. Aap apne life partner ko bahut ache se jante hai jo shadi ke bad apke life ko aur bhi khusiyo se bhar  deta  hai!

2. Mentally aap bahut khus hote hai ki apki pasand se shadi hui jo apko aur bhi khusiya deta hai!

3. Love marriage me agar dono ke bich kabhi koi choti problem bhi ho jaye to use ve asani se suljha lete hai isse understandig aur pyar aur bhi bad jata hai!

4. Logo ki love marriage  aksar other caste (intercaste) marriage hoti hai jo samaj ke log jaldi accept nahi karte!

5. Love marriage me kai bar honor killing jaise ghatna samne ati hai jo soch ke hi logo ko  dara deta hai!

6. Agar future me koi badi problem hui to family ke log support kam tane jyada denge!

Arranged marriage ke फायदे एवं  नुकसान:


1.
 India me 75% marriages arranged hoti aur jydatar shadi successful hoti hai!

2. Arranged marriage me family aur society ka full support hota hai jo shadi ko aur bhi yaadgar bana deta hai!

3. Arrange marriage me dicisions  bhawnao me na lekar ache se vichar karke hota hai isme sabhi logo ka dicisions hota hai jisme partner ke background ko dekh kar liya jata hai!

4.Arranged marriage me agar future me koi badi problem hoti hai to family ka full support hota hai  jisse aap muskil  ke pal me akeley kabhi nahi padenge!

5. Arrranged marriage ki problem hai ki aap use thk se jante nahi jo ander se thoda dara deta hai par  agar apme achi understanig hai to sab thk ho jata hai

6. Arreanged marriage me aksar dekha jata hai ki ache status  ke liye log jyada sochte nahi ha kisi bhi bade age ya door kahi rich se shadi kara dete hai jo bad me kai sari musibat lekar ata hai!

 

शादी कब करना चाहिये :

1. Aaj ke time me shadi ka sahi age 23 se 33 hai   is umra ke bich me apko shadi kar leni hi chahiye!

2. Agar aap mentally aur financially strong hai to ye apke shadi ka sahi time hota hai!

3.Shadi karne se pahle apne career ko ache se bana le jisse bad me apko koi broblem nahi hogi!

4.Shadi karne se pahle apne aap se puchiye ki kya aap shadi ke liye taiyar hai ya ghar wale ke dabav me kar rahe hai!

5.Shadi bahut sari jimmedari lekar ata hai ek bar shadi ho gai to aap jimmedari se piche nahi bhag sakte to shadi hamseha soch samj kar thande dimag se kare na ki josh me kare!

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My Tips: 

1. Agar apne abhi tak kabhi kisi se love nahi kia hai ya apko family ke sath chalne me pura bharosha rakhte hai to mai yahi kahunga aap arranged marriage kare!

2. Agar apko kisi se such me pyar hua hai jise lekar aap serious aur aap usi se shadi larna chahte hai to meri yahi advise hai ki aap love + arranged marriage kare jisme apko himmat karke apne family aur unke family se jaker bat karna padega jisse apki pasand unki bhi pasand ban paye!

3. Kai bar dekha gaya hai log intercaste marriage karna chahte hai par apki aur unki family raazi nahi hote to apko shant man se apko har sambhav unhe raazi karne ki kosis karna chahiye apne apko us kabil banana hoga yaad rakhe apni pasand se karna hai to mehnat to karna padega!

4. kabhi bhi filmo ko dekh kar suicide ya  ladki ko bhaga kar shadi bilkul bhi na kare varna bahut  hi badi muskil me pad jaoge!

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final word :   Mera personally ye manna hai ki love marriage karo ya arranged marriage isse koi fark nahi padta hai. Aise bat nahi hai ki love marriage jyada successful hogi ya arranged marriage Depend ye karta hai ki dono ke bich understanding kitni hai dono ka ek dusre ke prati Pyar, Vishvas, Respect kitna hai. aap shadi ko seriosly le life mai kabhi na kabhi koi problem jarur ayega bas aap ise kabhi badne na de.

 

Jab lage apki galti hai sorry jarur bole aur samay samay par apne pyar ka ezhar jarur kare isse partner ke bich pyar hamseha bana rahega aur life me khusiya bane rahegi..

 

Mai asha karta hu ki apko meri which is better love marriage or arranged marriage apko pasand ayi hogi agar achi lagi ho to comments me jarur batayega aur family friends ko jarur share kare agar apko kisi tarah ka sawal hai to aap comment me puch sakte hai apke sawal ka hum jawab dene ki puri koshis karenge ..

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